When kids have known little more than poverty, drive-by
shootings, and the narrow confines of their inner city communities, how do you persuade
them that life has rich possibilities?
How do you keep them from short-circuiting their potential by dropping
out of school or getting pregnant or both? How do you give them hope and
ambition?
One answer is Planned Parenthood’s Teen Outreach Program
(TOP®), an opportunity for kids to learn healthy behaviors and life skills, find
an adult they can confide in, and encounter opportunities they could never even
imagine. Each of these components plays
a critical role, and combined they can be transformative.
At Miami Northwestern Senior High, serving one of South
Florida’s poorest and most crime-plagued communities, TOP works within the required
Freshman Experience class throughout the school year. Teaching the classes are professional educators, called facilitators, selected in part for their youth and their ability to inspire the trust of
their students. Their mandate is to be
non-judgmental, to listen and be open to whatever the students say.
With honesty and candor each facilitator guides discussions of
sensitive, sometimes controversial subjects including sexuality, healthy vs.
unhealthy relationships, effective communication, goal setting, decision
making, health and hygiene, and more. Lessons are presented creatively, with
videos, outside speakers, role playing and other activities. Each session includes time to reflect on what
the students have learned and an opportunity to spell out what they’ve learned
in writing.
On one recent Wednesday, the focus was personal values. Class
began with the ninth graders working to distinguish between their genuinely held
beliefs and messages they receive from family, peers, media, church, and neighborhood. Do they really believe, that boys are not
attracted to smart girls? That money
does not make you happy? That you can’t
love someone else until you love yourself? That boys manipulate you so that you
will submit to sex?
After a discussion
of the validity of these messages, it was time to put their money – play money
– where their values were, as the facilitators held a “values auction.” Each student received $500 that she could use to buy the values
she most highly prized. The bidding was fast and furious as travel, college
education, physical fitness, true love, freedom from HIV and STDs and other
valued aspects of life came up on the auction block.
Why did you feel excited about the value you bought, the
facilitator asked when the auction was over.
In the ensuing discussion, the students acknowledged that they were
willing to pay more for some values than for others, and they came to identify
the values that were important to them.
Before the class ended, they spent a few minutes mapping out how they
could begin to live their values – working to get good grades, hanging around
with the right crowd, staying away from gangs.
In addition to the once-weekly classes, the students with their
facilitators complete at least 20 hours of community service. They research possibilities, identify a need,
help design activities and then choose which ones they will participate in. Afterwards
they analyze the experience – what happened during the project, the meaning it
has, and how might they apply this experience in the future.
The kids have walked for domestic violence and breast cancer
awareness, read to younger children, participated in a park clean-up. They have
painted a mural for the school, conducted an anti-bullying campaign, made hygiene
kits for residents of homeless shelters, shot a film. Through these project, they venture into
unfamiliar environments to help people with unfamiliar needs. They collaborate
and cooperate with each other, learn new skills and see that their effort has
an impact. Suddenly, community service
takes on a whole new meaning. Whereas
previously community service was what a judge ordered if they got in trouble
with the law, they now come to see it as taking ownership of and responsibility
for the world around them: their
school, their neighborhood, the larger community.
The program adopted and implemented by Planned Parenthood of
South East and North Florida in Miami-Dade and Palm Beach counties comes from
the Wyman Center in St. Louis, MO. Now over 30-years old, this nationally
replicated program is found to reduce risk of school suspension by 56%, course
failure by 60% and pregnancy by 53%.
Painting a mural at Miami Northwestern |
Again, each aspect of the program contributes to the answer.
Whereas
many of the students are already sexually active, it is in this class that they
first separate fact from myth and learn about how women really get pregnant. They also learn how easy it is to get HIV or
an STD, and they are put off. Combine
this lesson with others on respect, self-respect, and goal setting, and the
instruction is powerful.
Reinforcing the classroom lessons are the community service
projects and special events, which open the students’ eyes to new, exciting experiences
and opportunities. As the students identify needs, plan projects, and execute
their plans, they develop skills, gain a new sense of themselves and what they
can accomplish. In turn, ambition, interest in education, and academic
achievement all improve. Suddenly, they
see staying in school as a ticket to this tantalizing future. Getting in trouble with the law appears as an
impediment, as does having a baby.
Perhaps the most critical ingredient in the TOP program is
the trusted adult. Although the facilitators are with the students in class only one hour a week, they spend abundant informal
time together on the service projects and going to community events. They are available
full time in school throughout the academic year. And, when necessary, they give the kids their
cell numbers so they can to call or text at night and on weekends.
“The process of building trust with this program is so
unique,” said teacher Denise Simmons. It begins with her non-judgmental approach to
sensitive subjects and difficult questions in class. It continues outside of class with an open
invitation to discuss anything and everything, which usually means
relationships, drugs, marriage and sex.
“I don’t talk about
these things with my parents,” said ninth grader Keshawnna, who values being
able to confide in her TOP facilitator.
Knowing that the facilitators will be honest, thoughtful and
candid, the kids share intimate secrets and secret problems. In one instance,
teacher Twyla Russell encountered a student who was especially aggressive and
outspoken. In time and after much
conversation, Twyla learned the girl had nine siblings, was left to fend for
herself most of the time, and felt unloved and resentful. She needed shoes for ROTC, and Twyla worked with school resources to get them for her. More important, she needed parenting.
More conversation, and arrangements were made for the girl to live with
her godparents, where she received the guidance and attention she needed. With
this support, her behavior and grades improved.
In another instance, a student appeared to be overreacting
to a class discussion on rape. In
speaking with the girl, Denise learned that she had been raped by her uncle and
was now feeling guilty because this man had begun raping his daughter. Denise notified the proper authorities, the girl is receiving trauma counseling, and now she sees how she can help
others.
At Miami Northwestern Senior High, four full-time facilitators
teach 10 classes, with no more than 25 students per facilitator. In addition TOP operates as a once weekly extracurricular
middle school activity at two Miami Northwestern feeder schools, Brownsville
Middle School and Charles Drew K-8, where two facilitators run both
groups. A program director rounds out the staff. All told an estimated
450 Miami-Dade County students experience this extraordinary program, now in
its seventh year.
For four years TOP has also been operating in Palm Beach
County, where a staff of seven runs the program ad 10 schools serving 650
students. Budget in Palm Beach County is $400,000 and derives from several
national and local sources.
In Miami-Dade, the $300,000 budget comes principally from
the Hiram Brown Foundation. With additional funds Planned Parenthood could
launch this invaluable program at additional schools.
Teen Outreach Program
Planned Parenthood of South, East and North Florida
7900 NW 27 Avenue,
Miami, FL 33147
P: 789-505-4866 F: 786-517-6138
www.ppsenfl.orgMiami, FL 33147
P: 789-505-4866 F: 786-517-6138
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